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Emotional Eating Therapy

Explore what drives the craving so you can find comfort that truly nourishes.

Emotional Eating Therapy
Understanding the Condition

Understanding Emotional Eating

Emotional eating is the pattern of turning to food for comfort, stress relief, or emotional regulation rather than in response to physical hunger. It is not a moral failure, and it is far more common than most people realize.

For many people, food became a reliable source of soothing early in life. It works—temporarily. The act of eating can calm the nervous system, distract from painful feelings, and create a brief sense of comfort or control. But over time, the pattern becomes automatic, and the emotional relief becomes shorter-lived while the distress that follows grows.

Emotional eating exists on a spectrum. For some, it is an occasional response to stress. For others, it becomes a persistent pattern that affects mood, body image, relationships, and self-worth. Wherever you fall on that spectrum, your experience is valid and treatable.

What makes emotional eating so challenging is that it often operates below conscious awareness. You may not realize you are eating emotionally until after the fact—when the guilt or frustration sets in. Therapy helps you develop the awareness, tools, and self-compassion needed to interrupt the cycle and respond to your emotions in ways that truly serve you.

We don't want to eat hot fudge sundaes as much as we want our lives to be hot fudge sundaes. We want to come home to ourselves.
Signs & Symptoms

Signs You May Be Struggling

Emotional eating can look different for everyone, but there are common patterns that many people recognize in themselves.

Signs You May Be Struggling
01

Eating When Not Hungry

Reaching for food when you are bored, anxious, sad, or lonely—rather than when your body signals physical hunger.

02

Craving Specific Comfort Foods

Intense cravings for particular foods (often high-sugar or high-fat) that feel linked to emotional states rather than nutritional needs.

03

Eating to Numb or Escape

Using food to avoid feeling difficult emotions—stress, anger, grief, or overwhelm. Food becomes a way to check out.

04

Guilt After Eating

A recurring cycle of emotional eating followed by shame, self-criticism, or promises to do better—which often perpetuates the pattern.

05

Mindless or Automatic Eating

Eating without awareness—finishing a bag of chips or a pint of ice cream before you realize what happened.

06

Using Food as Your Primary Coping Tool

When food is the first and most reliable strategy for managing stress, it may be crowding out other ways of caring for yourself.

Treatment Approach

A Compassionate Path Forward

Treatment for emotional eating is not about restriction, willpower, or another diet plan. It is about understanding the emotional needs that food has been meeting—and developing new, sustainable ways to meet those needs.

In our work together, we explore the triggers, emotional patterns, and beliefs that drive the behavior. We build practical skills for emotional regulation, mindful eating, and self-compassion. And we address the deeper layers—perfectionism, people-pleasing, past experiences, or unprocessed grief—that may be fueling the cycle.

The approach is gentle, collaborative, and tailored to your specific experience. There is no judgment here—only curiosity and a genuine commitment to helping you feel more free.

Related Conditions

You may recognize other patterns

Emotional eating often coexists with other ways of coping through food. Exploring these connections is an important part of understanding your relationship with eating.

Body Image Distress

Persistent, distressing preoccupation with perceived flaws in physical appearance that may be minor or unnoticeable to others—significantly impacting mood, self-worth, and daily functioning.

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OSFED

Clinically significant eating disorders that don't fit neatly into the criteria for anorexia, bulimia, or binge eating disorder—but are equally serious and deserving of care. OSFED is the most commonly diagnosed eating disorder.

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The Process

How Telehealth Works

Schedule

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Clarity

Experience clarity and renewal with consistent support.

Mary DiOrio, LCSW

Questions about Emotional Eating?

Every situation is unique. A free 20-minute consultation helps us determine if my approach is the right fit for what you're going through.

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You deserve to feel nourished in every sense.

When food becomes your primary coping tool, therapy can help you understand the emotions underneath. Take the first step with a free, confidential consultation.